The dowry System

one of the biggest challenge in front of our society is dowry System.It is really very hectic to think that we are residing in 21st century,still the people are so conservative that they are thinking about cast system,Dowry System etc.I don't know what is the reason behind it but thinking about getting the money from the girl side is not to be said as a acceptable thinking.the incident of marriage happened with the agreeableness from both the side the Girl and the boy then why we are always claiming that the girl side should pay some extra money to the boy side as like something is going to be happened with the purchase or sell of human being.Due to this worst traditional System a big question is coming infront of our society in the form of Female feticide.Female feticide is one of the biggest challenges that India is facing today in terms of gender. It has become a significant social phenomenon. It transcends all barriers of caste, class and community and even the north-south dichotomy.It would be wrong to say that the government is doing nothing, but the problem is that sometimes even the government becomes helpless. If the people are not ready to change their mentality despite being educated, then ‘we’ are to be blamed. Any progress toward halting infanticide has been foiled by the rise in sex-selective abortions.I have talked with so many people in my contact,they usually ask ,i jhave paid this amount of money for my doughter /Sister then will i not take money from the girl side.I will simply ask to these people if every body will think something like this will it be possible to remove this disease from our society.At least one people should be initiative.always the question is asked why always I ,why not another person,I will answer this why are you always thinking about the another one why not about you.the best thing to purify the society is the purification of an individual.if every body will think to purify his own persona ,that day is not far we will find the well purified faultless society.The roots of purification are old, for those who have pursued the way of sanctity and holiness from all backgrounds and walks of life have known and understood the way that needed to be followed. For some, study was undertaken so that the inner steps could define the path to be pursued. For others, knowledge developed intuitively. Today, we are at a point at which knowledge can be combined with intuition in a sacred joining of spirit and matter - one that will allow the human self to become a sacred human, infused by the power of the soul.Now the big question arises whether this fault can be removed ,yes this can be removed definately.i will just want to mke remember the tradition about "sati pratha" at the time of Raja Raam Mohan Roy.at that time people felt the the adverse effect and theis tradition disappeared.Still now there is great need to think about the coming adverse effect of the syatem like dowry System.if every body is coonsidering this this system can easily be removed.....